Choosing yourself isn't simply self-care.
It's self-leadership.
For high-achieving women, healthcare professionals, and leaders who are ready to stop losing themselves underneath everything they carry.
100+ copies sold directly. 35+ five-star reader reviews.
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Have you become so good at showing up for everyone else that you've stopped showing up for yourself?
You can be successful.
Dependable.
Accomplished.
The person everyone counts on.
And still recognize that somewhere underneath everything you carry, you've stopped making yourself part of the equation.
I Choose Me: The Intentional Guide to Never Losing Yourself Again was written for high-achieving women, healthcare professionals, and leaders who recognize that success, responsibility, and caring for others should not require losing themselves in the process.
Through personal storytelling, practical reflection, and the metaphor of a butterfly's transformation, I explore the patterns of self-neglect, overwhelm, guilt, self-doubt, overgiving, and Superwoman Syndrome that can quietly affect how we live, work, and lead.
This book invites you to:
- Reconnect with your identity beyond the roles you carry
- Strengthen your confidence and self-trust
- Create healthier boundaries without unnecessary guilt
- Recognize patterns of overwhelm and self-neglect
- Become more intentional about your well-being
- Strengthen the self-leadership required to live and lead differently
Like the butterfly emerging from its cocoon, transformation requires recognizing what can no longer come with you into your next season.
This isn't about abandoning your ambition, career, responsibilities, or the people you love.
It's about refusing to abandon yourself in the process.
Because choosing yourself isn't simply self-care.
It's self-leadership.
What Readers Are Saying - 35+ Five-Star Reviews
"Inspiring and Empowering: A Must-Read"
"Inspiring and Empowering: A Must-Read"
"Inspiring and Empowering: A Must-Read"
"I Choose Me" is a remarkable book that resonated deeply with me. Having had the privilege of attending a retreat recently where Coach Jineen was one of the speakers, I was captivated by her thought-provoking workshop. Her insights and genuine approach prompted me to purchase this book, and I am so grateful that I did.
My main takeaway of this book is Jineen’s authenticity. She doesn’t shy away from sharing her own struggles and triumphs. Her vulnerability creates a safe space for readers to explore their own experiences and emotions, fostering a sense of connection and understanding.
You want to grab your copy today to start this journey of choosing yourself.
-Temika
"This Is A Must Have"
"Inspiring and Empowering: A Must-Read"
"Inspiring and Empowering: A Must-Read"
There was nothing to dislike about this self help guide. Not only has this book help guide me to be my best self, it's also helped guide me to be the best mother, woman and entrepreneur. I was feeling so guilty and often choose everyone before I choose me, not now. I CHOOSE ME and by doing so those directly associated with me get the best me. I'm not making them a priority, I'm showing them I'm a priority and they ate directly affected in a great way. I'm a better mother and talk about time management, whew don't get me started. I won't say I don't still have bumps in the road, but I will say now I know how to cross them and be okay with it.
Run and get your copy, grab your friend, daughter, sister and even your mom a copy while your at it.
-Chaneaqua
"A Testimony & Much Needed Inspo!!"
"Inspiring and Empowering: A Must-Read"
"Unapologetically choosing me first..."
I was intrigued by Jineen’s testimony. It is so inspiring when women tell their stories because sometimes it can start to feel like we are so alone on this path. Jineen is a great storyteller & in this book, she takes you on a journey with her through trials & tribulations. The good thing (or should I say, the GOD thing) is that not only do you gain insight into her life story, but also inspiration to keep trucking on/through your own ups & downs. This book is a guide that makes it more than a “one-time” read. I will be referring back through these pages whenever I need encouragement!
-Karla
"Unapologetically choosing me first..."
"It’s Hard to choose self after kids, husband, careers, and most importantly your inner self!"
"Unapologetically choosing me first..."
I Choose Me is a powerful book that will uplift, inspire, and empower you to embrace your true essence and shine brightly from within. This book serves as a beacon of life for those seeking to discover radiance and cultivate a sense of self-worth along with finding peace.
-Torey
"It’s Hard to choose self after kids, husband, careers, and most importantly your inner self!"
"It’s Hard to choose self after kids, husband, careers, and most importantly your inner self!"
"It’s Hard to choose self after kids, husband, careers, and most importantly your inner self!"
This book shows the author's transparency and vulnerability, you hear compassion and empathy. She breaks the importance of self-love down with the analysis of a butterfly. This book has afforded me the opportunity to hear and process my own healing through the authors process of changing from a Caterpillar into a beautiful butterfly. This process was not easy for her and she explains that but she also is able to walk hand and hand with us through our self love process, through her podcast tools and the book, I’m on my way to better, the Lord has sent a Angel to help us get back to the basic and climb high in our purpose in love with all power and confidence dispute want we see in the rear view mirror. Now get your copy and start healing by looking forward through your windshield and stay out of your rear view. Take this healing journey sister and brother this book will change your mind set, if you are ready to move forward let’s go.
-Victoria
Male Perspective : "Emotional, Execellent, and Important Read"
"It’s Hard to choose self after kids, husband, careers, and most importantly your inner self!"
"It’s Hard to choose self after kids, husband, careers, and most importantly your inner self!"
Absolutely a page-turner. Full of informative guidelines for your life journey. I know it was geared towards women but I found a lot of guidance that can go for both genders. A must-have.
-Christopher
This is one of the best book I’ve read in a very long time, very emotional and certain level of this book brought me back in my mid 20s which caught me off guard. This book is a must I highly recommended!
-Daniel
About Jineen
I'm Jineen R. Huff, MSN, an award-winning nurse leader, resilience strategist, transformational speaker, author of I Choose Me, and founder of Intentional Queen Journey®.
My mission is simple:
To help high-achieving women and leaders stop losing themselves in the lives and careers they've worked so hard to build.
After experiencing burnout myself, I learned that success should not require self-neglect.
Today, I help high-achieving women, healthcare professionals, and leaders recognize patterns of burnout and self-neglect that can quietly affect their well-being, confidence, performance, and leadership.
My work helps them strengthen self-trust, create healthier boundaries, develop greater self-leadership, and experience more sustainable harmony in how they live, work, and lead.
With more than 25 years in healthcare, my work is informed by both professional expertise and lived experience.
Through I Choose Me, my signature BLOOM™ framework, the Intentional Queen Podcast, speaking, and transformational educational experiences, I help people move beyond simply functioning and begin making more intentional choices about how they lead themselves and their lives.
I'm also a 2x LinkedIn Top Voice in Life Coaching and Motivational Speaking, and the Intentional Queen Podcast has reached more than 20,000 downloads.
Because choosing yourself isn't about becoming someone else. It's about refusing to lose yourself while becoming everything you're called to be.
100+ copies sold directly. 35+ five-star reader reviews.
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You don't have to change everything overnight.
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THE "I CHOOSE ME" MOVEMENT & TRANSFORMATIONS CONTINUE...
"Re-introducing Myself to Myself"
"Re-introducing Myself to Myself"
"Re-introducing Myself to Myself"
I resonated with so many of the topics in this work of art in my past and present. I've underlined and written notes more than usual ! This book truly serves as a self-love festival while cleaning out the closet of my negative thought patterns and adding tools to my toolkit. It really speaks to the lyric in The Greatest Love of All by Whitney Houston, "Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all." It's the loving yourself deeply for me ! Chapter 3 in particular pulled me together because it clearly outlined issues that required self-reflection, analysis, and change. This is book is more than just a great read, it is testament to the resiliency that resides in all of us.
Jineen, this is a body of work that embodies your words of the year since starting the podcast. Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing your journey and impacting nations of women across the globe!
-Sheena
"Self-discovery and Empowerment"
"Re-introducing Myself to Myself"
"Re-introducing Myself to Myself"
“I Choose Me” is not just a book; it’s a profound journey of self-discovery and empowerment that resonated deeply with me from start to finish. This book is a beacon of inspiration for anyone seeking to prioritize their own happiness and fulfillment.
As someone who has struggled with putting my own needs first, “I Choose Me” struck a chord with me on a deeply personal level. Through Jineen’s words, I felt seen and understood, as if she were speaking directly to my own experiences and struggles.
The book is filled with wisdom, practical advice, and heartfelt anecdotes that illuminate the path to self-love and acceptance.
I wholeheartedly recommend “I Choose Me” to anyone who has ever felt trapped by societal expectations or struggled to prioritize their own well-being. This book serves as a powerful reminder that self-love is not selfish, but rather a necessary foundation for living a fulfilling and authentic life.
In conclusion, “I Choose Me” is a transformative read that has the potential to change lives. Whether you’re embarking on a journey of self-discovery or simply seeking guidance on how to cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, this book is a must-read.
-D.S.
"Encouragement and support for the soul."
"Encouragement and support for the soul."
"Encouragement and support for the soul."
For anyone who has ever felt like giving up, this book is for you. Jineen uses her journey to outline a pathway for others to choose themselves even when it feels hard. This self love book is a must read for every woman who ever questioned the importance of choosing self. Help is here!
- L. Peake
"We let others know how to treat us!"
"Encouragement and support for the soul."
"Encouragement and support for the soul."
This book was a page-turner and easy to read. I really liked the title 'I Choose Me.' One takeaway I got from it was that we let other people know how to treat us by how we treat ourselves. As women, we have many different roles, and its often easy to pour into other people,our jobs,etc, while putting ourselves on the backburner. But everyone benefits when we take care of ourselves. This book also included practical tips on how to do just that.
-Jen
The Journey Doesn't End With the Book
Choosing yourself isn't a one-time decision.
It's a practice.
A way of recognizing when old patterns of self-neglect, over-functioning, guilt, or overwhelm begin resurfacing.
And a commitment to leading yourself differently.
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Keep choosing you,
Jineen R. Huff, MSN
Award-winning Nurse Leader | Resilience Strategist | Transformational Speaker | Author
Founder, Intentional Queen Journey®
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